DEVELOPING THE 8S TAZKIYAH-BASED MARITAL COUNSELLING FRAMEWORK

Abstract

Marital instability has become an increasing concern across many Muslim societies, with rising divorce rates and relational distress, indicating the need for counselling models that are spiritually grounded and culturally congruent with Muslim societies. Although Islamic scholarship offers a rich reservoir of virtues such as ikhlāṣ (sincerity), ṣabr (patience), shukr (gratitude), shūrā (consultation), sakīnah (tranquility), ṣidq (truthfulness), khidmah (service), and Saʿādah (well-being/flourishing), these concepts remain thematically dispersed and have not been systematically integrated into a unified therapeutic framework for marital counselling. Likewise, while tazkiyah al-nafs (self-purification) is central to classical Islamic psychology, it remains under-theorized within contemporary marital counselling practice. This study addresses these gaps by developing the 8S tazkiyah-based marital counselling framework through a grounded content analysis of the Qurʾān, ḥadīth, classical texts, modern Islamic psychology literature, and empirical research on Muslim marital counselling. The analytical procedure involved textual coding and thematic categorization of classical and contemporary sources. The resulting model integrates three components: (a) tawḥīdic epistemology as the overarching worldview; (b) tazkiyah al-nafs as the core psychospiritual mechanism; and (c) eight virtue-based processes–ikhlāṣ, ṣabrr,shukrr,shūrāā,sakīnahh,ṣidqq,khidmahh, and Saʿādah–that collectively guide intrapersonal and interpersonal transformation within marriage. The framework contributes to Islamic psychology by offering a structured, spiritually anchored virtue model and providing practitioners with an evidence-informed tool for marital interventions. This study demonstrates how Islamic virtues, when systematically conceptualized, can form a cohesive therapeutic pathway to strengthen marital relationships and enhance family well-being in Muslim contexts.